Name calling….Public Spitting…Brick Throwing…it’s all become part of the on-going dialogue between the City of San Diego and the NFL-Chargers ownership.

Rancor…Animosity…Distrust…Greed….Arrogance….all thinks linked to the ongoing struggle to finance and build a NFL Stadium.

And it goes on and on, with the one constant being, nothing moves forward, because there is so much history behind..

Maybe it will change with this second meeting of constructed talks between the city and the the football team, coupled now there is a goal-line in sight, a date to get a public vote taken.

The city brought out all its key negotiating team members, while the Chargers exited without comment in a parking garage below Golden Hall.  In typical fashion, the city pushes the boulder up the hill, and the football team seems intent on laying more obstacles in front.

For at least 90-minutes yesterday, the two sides talked about structure.  Talked about having 104-days to find a solution, so City Council can approve a city-wide vote.  Then the team left, and its key people headed to New York for a meeting with the ‘Committe on LA” with Carmen Policy ready to sales pitch the league, the Chargers-Rainders tandem, in a new stadium in Carson is the best location.

So hard to know who to believe, the strong positive statements from the Kevin Faulconer team, or the actions by Dean Spanos’ group, always working on the LA situation, but not so much here.

The city has had incompetent leadership off and off for decades.  The city has had to resolve the near bankruptcy from a pension scandal.  The city resides in a state paralyzed by economic, social, and job issues.

The NFL franchise has asked, begged, demanded, cajoled, insulted its way into this corner argument now, because of who it is, an NFL franchise that has believed forever they are entitled to anything it wants, anytime, on somebody else’s dime.

It would be laughable, if it were not sad, that San Diego and the Chargers seem to be at a crossroads in contract talks, with a short timeline, and a road veering north that might take the team to Carson.

Nothing has ever been right involving this relationship, dating back to the late 1990s  expansion of seats for the Super Bowl, followed by the owner’s insulting comments three years later, they wanted a new stadium, and the NFL commissioner’s insults during Super Bowl week about never coming back here.

You can now fully understand the across the board anger, either at the Spanos family, the league, and the city leadership.

Now we have hurt feelings, Mark Fabiani’s comments about sports-talk radio, or a twitter-facebook account, that might blow up the negotiations, as if his confrontational nature hasn’t done enough damage prior.

For once somebody on the other street corner, the mayor and his CSAG group, has proposed something.  Whether it can be accomplished with all this creative financing will have to be decided by someone above my pay scale.  But at least there is a proposal, and a date for a vote if they solve all the issues..

Now we are spending so much time doing CYA (cover your ass) activities, instead of trying to find a solution to the $1.1B stadium proposal.

Maybe it’s time to fight fire with fire.  Fabiani has attacked everything as if he is a junk-yard dog, protecting the owner’s premises.  CSAG is unveiling a document that blows holes in all the past Chargers proposals for Stadiums, launching hand grenades in the direction of its constant critics.

The Chargers wanting title to all 166-acres of Qualcomm land, so they could build, develop and profit from all, asking the city to give them title to some half a billion dollars in real estate, just because they are the NFL team.

A proposal of a 50-50 share of costs, but by the way, throw in 60-acres for Team Spanos free of charge, as if there is no cost to the city by doing that.

Proposals to build on golf courses, movie theatre lands, toxic land south of the city.  All grandiose plans but somebody else had to write the check.

So here we are, two meetings into this trench-warfare battle, city on one side, the team on the other side of the barbed wire, and this is going to take lots of times.

I’ve never been a proponent of free lunches for the rich, and I’ve never been a believer in some of our leaders, some thieves, some drunks, some perverts.  But I am a believer, if this is worth keeping, then it is worth staying at the negotiating table to try, and this idea sheet is the only legitimate thing I’ve seen in awhile.

Remembering John Belushi in Animal House, ‘“Nothing is over until we decide it is!”.  I also remember one mayor calling it as he saw it, that the Spanos’ were acting like welfare queens.

Somewhere in between, they have to find a solution to the financing, the egos, and the hope all this bad history can be changed.

This isn’t very good, and it’s probably the reason the product hasn’t been very good on the field either.
 
When you have 12-losing seasons in a 15-year run, when your postseason playoff record is miserable, and your playoff appearances seem like years ago,you have to pinpoint a reason.
 
The San Diego Padres need to look no farther down the hallway than their baseball scouting department.  The Padres drafts have been horrible, going back to the decade of the 1990s, and do you know how long ago that was?.
 
Now that AJ Preller has taken over as GM, with his people in command, coming off the wild winter of wheeling and dealing, you’d hope things got better.  But the Padres front office will be like you and me later today, watching the early stages of the Baseball 1st Year draft on TV.  They don’t have a lst round pick, because that choice went to the Kansas City Royals as compensation for the signing of big money, big game James Shields.
 
The Friars won’t select till the 51st pick in the second round and then follow that with choices in the third round at picks 86-and-98.  Of course you can find great players anywhere, like Albert Pujols or Mike Piazza, taken in places like the 27th and 35th rounds.
 
But the history of this franchise, and the choices in the past are horrible.
 
Do you know the last star they drafted in the 1st round was slugger Derrek Lee, an opening round pick in 1993, more than two plus decades ago?  And he wound up being traded to the Florida Marlins.
 
In 22-years, the Padres have had only a couple of impact players coming out their opening round selections.  In 2002, Khalil Greene became a star for a short time in San Diego, playing great at shortstop and hitting home runs, but was done and gone shortly, dealt away to the Cardinals, then walking out of baseball because of anxiety attacks.
 
Sean Burroughs was hoped to be a savior, the son of former Texas Rangers slugger Jeff Burroughs, but he never delivered the kind of power they hoped, then had to fight thru nagging injuries, and was peddled on to other clubs, never having a satisfying career.
 
That’s it, that’s all this franchise has to show in the first round dating back 22-years.
 
Bad luck hurt this team.  1st round pitching prospect Tim Stauffer had two shoulder surgeries.  Cruelly, Corey Luebke is trying to rally back from two elbow surgeries, another opening round pick cursed by injuries.
 
And the Padres curse to at choices like Matt Bush, last seen serving a prison term, or the latest failure, Donavan Tate, fighting thru substance abuse and non-stop injury issues.
 
And the new regime has dealt off some of the more recent top picks, pitcher Joe Ross and shortstop Treu Turner, both headed to the Washington Nationals in various deals.
 
Preller brought with him a reputation in scouting and in international signings.  He has not done much in his less than a year on the job in the international venue, making runs at Cuban stars, but not landing any.  And he will sit for awhile till his staff gets the chance to draft somebody midway thru the second round.
 
I thought about what has befallen the Padres, and said to myself, if Kansas City can finally win after decades of disappointment, if the Pirates can get to postseason after 2-decades of failure, then yes it can happen in San Diego.
 
The only difference though, there are no Eric Hosmer-Alex Gordon-Mike Moustakas like players coming to San Diego like those who have rescued Kansas City.  And the Pirates are fuelled by all star Andrew McCutchen, a star in his own right, and the fact 7-of-the 8-position players in the Pittsburgh starting lineup, when they were here last week at Petco, are their own draft picks.
 
The Padres have lots of marquee names in the lineup tonite, but little home-grown, and very little ready to contribute yet from El Paso-San Antonio.  And because they don’t draft high again tonite, it may be a bit longer till they can say ‘built in San Diego’.
 
Dismal, disappointing, the real “D” words when describing the Padres, and the other “D” word, drafting.

The building was rocking and rolling for sure last nite, that renovated basketball arena, home of the Golden State Warriorsm who opened their championship playoff series with a win over the Cleveland Cavaliers. 
 
Across the parking lot, the dark football stadium becomes a Mardi-Gras of sorts 10-times years, when all those fans, wearing paint, jewelry and adornments, root for the the NFL team, the Raiders.  And this time of year, you can find plenty of empty seats, and an occasional winning streak, when the baseball team plays there, the Athletics.
 
It struck me as odd though, in the city that all these teams play, no-one wants to use the name “Oakland” as part of their branding, and they always seem to be trying to leave.
 
Oakland, across the bay from San Francisco, is an economically challenged city.  Unemployment is high.  Murder rate is high.  There is an aging downtown.  And it’s franchises are always trying to flee the old facilities they call home..
 
The Warriors games are the in place to be right now, but it hasn’t been that way in a long time.  You think Warriors, and Rick Barry was a long time ago.  More recently it was the home of Latrell Sprewell, who said he couldn’t feed his family on 16M a year, and was leaving.  Before that it was the failed career of Chris Washburn.  Before that the give away trade of Joe Barry Carroll.  And it’s owner Franklin Mieuli, benevolent to a fault, called them Golden State.
 
Warriors ownership has been casting glances towards a new building in San Francisco, seemingly intent of getting out of the arena just renovated, just off the 880-freeway.
 
The Raiders are playing in a relic of a stadium, poorly expanded and renovated for the new Mount Davis seats, now tarped off.  It’s been a horrid product for a decade, thanks to Al Davis’ poor drafts, hideous free agent signings, and his mercurial ways.  The eras of Marcus Allen to Ken Stabler are a long time gone.
 
And they did vacate Oakland, leaving to go to the LA Coliseum, with the promise of riches.  Instead there was a money grab, a gravel pit, gang-bangers and their ilk, and Davis took his team back to the East Bay, where things got worse.  NFL football was passing Davis by, and the business of NFL football, he never ever grasped.  They are one of the poorest teams in existence in an era where everyone makes money in the NFL.
 
And they are looking to leave again, to go to Carson or Hollywood Park.
 
The Athletics have explored new stadiums in San Jose and Sacramento, blocked either by lack of financing or territorial rights granted by MLB to the cross-bay Giants.  The product has been good, been bad, and in a constant state of change, thanks to their GM-Billy Beane.  The baseball franchise links back to the original wildcard of an owner Charley Finley to the current Moneyball era of Lewis Wolf.
 
But what strikes me odd, they are the Golden State Warriors; they are the Raiders-period-exclamation point; they are the Athletics.  Very little, if ever, a reference to the city where they play Oakland.
 
Good teams at times, but not the emotional city linkage you’d find if this were the Lakers, Red Sox nor Packers.  And that is very strange.

They are ready, we are ready, for a much anticipated NBA championship series.
 
The Splash Brothers-vs-King James and his Cavaliers on the court.  Cleveland-vs-Golden State.
 
The last time they were playing this deep into June was 1975.  The Warriors, coached by Al Attles, fueled by Rick Barry’s long distance shooting, and the fire and fury of Clifford Ray and Keith Wilkes, beat Washington in a stunning four game sweep.  The Bullets had Elvin Hayes and Wes Unseld, the street toughs, and still lost.
 
Cleveland hasn’t won a championship in any sport since the 1964-NFL-Browns, but the Cavs did come close once during the Bill Fitch era.
 
LeBron James came home, yes you can come home, but you have to leave first.  He did, in a hateful exit to form the Dream Team in Miami.  He did return to the 330-Area Code, and he has delivered on a promised to get the Cavs to the finals.
 
The most complete player in the NBA is driven to success, but he leads a hurting team right now.  Running mate guard Kyree Irving is good, but is hurt alot, the latest being a strained knee.  The Cavs got to the finals, losing center Anderson Veraejao and Kevin Love along the way to season ending injuries.
 
The Warriors have been losers for years, and it took time to put things in place, but have they ever come together.  Steph Curry may be the best pure shooter since Pete Maravich or the modern day Michael Jordan.  Klay Thompson is his running mate, and has become a sniper too.  And the Warrior provide a consortium of big men, who can score, or play defense, rebound or give fouls.  You will hear the names Harrison Barnes, Draymond Green, and Andre Iguodala alot.
 
This looks like a series of 1-on-1 games, LeBron-vs-Curry.  James will push the tempo but the big question is whether he can survive layer after layer of defensive players Golden State sends after him?
 
The coaching matchups will be fun.  Steve Kerr, a winner at every stop in his basketball life, from the University of Arizona, to the Chicago Bulls, and now as a coach against the globe-trotting coach Dave Blatt, few fans know much about, but who built a reputation coaching abroad.
 
The key to the series will be Golden State shooting the ball, and not turning it over.  They hit an amazing 40% of their 3-point shots in season.  They average 11-treys per game, which provides them with lots of point, and they have firepower to get on those 13-3 runs that blow games open.  They have bulk and depth also to grind it out.
 
The Cavs need the wild shooting JR Smith and Matt Dellavedova to get hot, not be stone cold, to provide the points that James cannot get them.  Somehow, someway, the Cleveland bigs Tristan Thompson and Tim Mozgov must score, board and stay out of foul trouble.
 
This will be fun for sure.  First time in a longtime for Golden State.  James is (2-4) in NBA finals, and he won’t have the luxury of Chris Bosh-Dwayne Wade around him from Miami days.
 
Splash Brothers to beat the King and the Cavaliers on his court in six games.

It should come as no surprise, what the San Diego Chargers are doing with their top defensive player, Eric Weddle.
 
If history counts for anything, then this is business as normal.  And if that history is to be remembered, it’s likely to end badly, costing the team on the field.
 
The Chargers decision not to offer a contract extension in this offseason, after initially saying they would, smacks of disrespect to a player who has done everything plus more for the franchise over the course of his career, on and off the field.  Like all issues with agents, a contract offer becomes a negotiating chip.  The dollar offered seldom winds up being the dollar spent, but that is part of the game.
 
Why would the Chargers diss Weddle at this point, creating a distraction for the 2015-season?  Simply put, they have a dollar value on that position, and they are not going over that dollar value, and it would have been that way had they made an offer.
 
Weddle is finishing up a 4-year deal, the second he signed with the club, that has averaged 8M per season.  He established himself after his first deal was up,  was allowed to test the open market, got a bid from the Houston Texans.  It forced San Diego to respond and ‘overpay’ Weddle on the last deal.  Granted he developed into a rock-solid trustworthy leader and talent, but there was no rationale for paying him that kind of money early on in this deal.
 
So now because the last offer was mishandled, they will likely let him test the market, Weddle has become Darren Sproles and Vincent Jackson.  The Chargers mishandled them to, in the AJ Smith era.  Sproles was franchised tag at 7M after two great years, well above his pay-scale level.  On he has gone and done well at New Orleans and Philadelphia.  Jackson was jerked around, when he could have been signed earlier, and next thing you knew, he was gone to Tampa Bay on a mega contract.
 
Had the Chargers treated them fairly, not overpaid Sproles and lowballed VJ, they might still be here.  The team lost them, and the franchise has never been the same.  Now a repeat again, this time with Weddle.
 
There’s no way they are going to pay him on a four year extension at his age.  Call it the Ed Reed-Baltimore Ravens syndrome.  There’s no way they are going to pay him 10M a year going forward either.  And you cannot link Weddle to an age-injury notation, this is not a perennially hurt Troy Polamalu player either.
 
Yes the franchise has to take care of Philip Rivers, and maybe Corey Liuget.  But they did take care of Donald Butler and King Dunlap, and no one believes those guys are as important to the team as Weddle has become.  But the cap keeps going up, older players will be leaving, so there is money to be moved around.
 
Another odd happenstance is what Mike McCoy did, telling his players this week before the OTA’s began, to move on from Eric Weddle, as if he was just another name on a blackboard.  Wrong assumption.  Even more wrong is a coach getting involved in a player’s contract situation infront of other players.  Yes McCoy may be management, but he has a responsibility to keep his team together.
 
He just took sides in a contract dispute, in essence telling the players, ‘your contract does not over-ride loyalty to the team’.  The man, who does not like distractions, just created one, that could split the lockeroom into us-vs-them, players downstairs vs people upstairs.  You do remember the AJ Smith era of barbed wire fences in that building, “you are a Charger on a year-to-year basis”.
 
It must be some deep-rooted philosophy in that Chargers Park building, that you are our property, and we will do with you what we want, when we want, and the price we want.  All fine and good, except there will be options out there for Eric Weddle to experiment with.  Can you say New England Patriots-Bill Belicheck, or the Indianapolis Colts, or Green Bay Packers?  This is not the era of Halas-Paul Brown-Al Davis either. The GM-Tom Telesco should know that.
 
If you don’t learn from history, you are bound to repeat it.  The Chargers appear headed down that road with Eric Weddle, in addition to the rumored road they may be travelling to Los Angeles.